"Spicing
Up Your Love Relationship in 4 Easy Steps"
By Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Coaches
No matter
how long you’ve been in a love relationship, you can
always find ways to spice it up. It is indisputable that relationships
change all the time and boredom can occur if you keep doing
the same “old” thing.
Regardless
of the stage of life you are in, you can spice up your love
making. Here are 4 easy steps to try…
1. Look
at what you want from your love making experience. You may
think that you already know what this is, especially if you’ve
been in your relationship for many years. However, we recommend
that you look with new eyes at what your desires are. Expand
your possibilities!
2. Share
what you discover about your desires with your lover. It may
be something completely new for you to talk about topics other
than kids, work, what you want for dinner, or even the weekend’s
activities. Be sure you and your lover are alone and away
from distractions like the computer or television when having
this discussion. Share from your heart without blame or judgment.
Let your partner know you want a closer, more loving connection
with him or her.
3. Be
sure to listen to the desires your lover has discovered. Encourage
your partner to share this with you. Keep your heart open
and let go of judgment as you listen. This might require practice
as possible triggers may come up. Stay in a place of love
as you listen so that your lover will know you are open to
what he or she is asking for. If you are not open to your
partner’s desires, go inside yourself to understand
why. Make note of the thoughts that come up for you. If you
are open to your partner’s desires, try them out!
4. Give
yourself and your environment a makeover. As a couple, create
a beautiful loving space for your love making. This may mean
rearranging furniture in your bedroom or other intimate spaces—lessening
clutter is a great start! Playing sensual music can spark
passion for both of you as well. Let that old bathrobe or
sweatpants stay in the closet. Instead, choose what you wear—or
don’t wear—with passion in mind. Treat your intimate
time as sacred because it is.
These
4 easy steps can help take you to a more passionate, alive
and connected love relationship. Go for it as you learn new
skills, polish old ones and open your heart!
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Susie and Otto Collins are Relationship Coaches and authors
who are passionate about helping people create lives that
are filled with more passion, love and connection. For more
tips on rekindling passion in your love relationship, visit
http://www.RedHotLoveRelationships.com
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