"3
Love Making Tips for Couples in Long-Term Relationships"
by Susie and Otto Collins
You’ve probably been making love with each other for
many years and might question why you need to read an article
about love making. Keep reading because we have some helpful
surprises for you!
You may
have forgotten a few things along the way and there may also
be some new things you’d like to try.
Here are
a few love making tips just for you…
1. Create
the time for love and romance in your relationship. Love making
can be put on the back burner too easily as time slips away
from you. Couples like this intend to get to it when life
calms down. Like most people, you have to make the time in
your life for what’s important to you. If intimate time
together is important, create the time for it. If being spontaneous
doesn’t work out, block out time for a “love date”
and don’t allow other things to get in the way.
2. If
you don’t feel like making love, honestly communicate
with your partner and yourself. This may sound simple, but
sometimes it isn’t. Physical ailments—real or
imagined—are allowed get in the way of intimacy. There
are also times when you are just too tired and love making
is not on your mind. Whatever it is, let your partner know
honestly and then make a “date” for a time when
you know you’ll feel better or have more time to connect
with each other. If you are really feeling disconnection from
your partner, don’t use the old “I have a headache”
excuse. Honestly facing the issue with your partner can help
you feel better.
3. Focus
on each other—let go of concerns about the kids or work.
Wipe extraneous thoughts, worries and fears from your mind
when you come together for love making. If this isn’t
possible, let your partner know you need to clear your head.
Then go take a walk or do something that will help. You may
also need to deal with a particular issue or problem with
your partner. Take care of that first, then focus on the love
you have for each other.
These
are just a few ideas you can try to create more passion in
your love making. Learning new skills and opening up to new
ways to be together will help you deepen your connection.
For more
tips and ideas on how to create a red hot love relationship
in and out of the bedroom—and keep it that way—visit
http://www.RedHotLoveRelationships.com
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