We’ve all heard the sayings that “everyone deserves a second chance.” If your man has a history of lying to you and possibly of also cheating, you might be wondering if your partner deserves a second chance. Even if he deserves that second chance, are you wise to offer it? If you’re in a place [...]

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the 1. [...]

Yet again you dodged the uncomfortable silence, dismissed the gnawing fears in your gut, stifled the suspicions that rage in your mind.It seems to get harder and harder to pretend that the mistrust isn’t there in your relationship but there’s no denying that it is. No matter how much you may try to pretend that [...]

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach Here’s a great question that is very common when one person in a relationship has had an affair and just can’t seem to let go of the OP (other person). “My husband admitted to the affair, but yet he still continues to contact this person and has asked [...]

One of the questions you undoubtably have if you’ve been cheated on is why it happened. You’ve probably asked yourself this question dozens of times. And you may feel that you need to know why the affair happened in order to keep it from happening According to marriage and family counsellor Dr. Frank Ginzburg, the [...]

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach   Dear Dr. Bob, I recently found that my fiance has been writing to several other women over the internet and I found the e-mails. They are all very suggestive and sexual and he talks to them about things that he and I have shared. He cannot understand [...]

Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don’t change anything.Signs of a Cheating Spouse: 1.) You find birth-control [...]

Since the development and widespread use of the internet, amazing possibilities have become available to many people around the world. Geographical boundaries can easily be traversed with the click of a mouse and doors to new information, experiences and people are now wide open. This is all wonderful– except if your spouse or partner chooses [...]

by Dr. Frank Gunzburg Baltimore Maryland When you end the affair, you might get a feeling of “withdrawal.” As I stated above, being in an affair is a lot like being addicted to a drug. This means that when you end the affair you will have to go through the uncomfortable experience of “clean” again. [...]

If you’re in a relationship or marriage… No matter what’s going on in that relationship (good or bad) You just want to be told the truth. After all… Everybody deserves to be told the truth, right? If there’s one thing we’ve heard over and over from our Breakthrough Relationship Coaching clients and others who write [...]

Your marriage is over. You’re picking up the pieces of a life you once loved. I can hear you scream, “Why is this happening to me?” It’s surprising how many affairs are going on in today’s marriages. If your spouse isn’t outwardly cheating on you, then maybe he’s fantasizing about it. Or you are creating [...]

He strayed once, things have improved but the question still is…Will he do it again? When you’ve been hurt in the past…And now things are going along pretty well, how can you stay focused on the positive when you keep getting pulled into jealousy and mistrust? Good question and…Even though you might know that it’s [...]

Dr. Frank Gunzburg Baltimore Maryland Unfortunately, there is not one simple answer that addresses why all people who get involved in affairs do so. People are complex and engage in infidelity for different reasons. When we talk about the “reasons” the affair happened, it might seem as though the affair were inevitable or somehow a [...]

When we first started offering our program for stopping jealousy called “No More Jealousy,” we didn’t realize that cheating in our culture was as big of an issue and problem as it is. Now of course, we know that many men and women in committed relationships don’t cheat. But many ARE cheating and have cheated [...]

What do you do if your partner is involved with someone else–either physically or emotionally (or both)–and he or she won’t stop Do you hang on and hope that your partner will some day wake up and completely come back to you and let the other person go–or do you leave? If you’d like some [...]