Is Your Jealousy Driving Him Away? 5 Ways to Know…

There’s a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach and it’s not because of something you ate. You know that your questions, comments and voiced concerns to your guy often come from jealousy. An almost-constant stream of worries and fears run through your mind and you’re afraid that this is turning him off and pushing him […]

Break Free from Relationship Problems

Kim feels trapped. She and her long-time boyfriend Jared have been having the same miserable argument over and over again. They can’t seem to find a solution and things are only getting worse. He insists his friendship with his ex is only that– a friendship– but Kim believes that Jared’s ex is manipulating him and using […]

Is Jealousy Really SO Terrible?

What do you tell yourself when you feel jealous? “Everybody gets jealous.” “A ‘little’ jealousy is good for my relationship.” “I’ve got this jealousy thing under control.” “Jealousy only shows my partner how much I care.” “Jealousy really isn’t so terrible!”  You try to convince yourself that the worried, angry, insecure and upset way you […]

5 Phrases to Say When You Feel Jealous

What happens to you when you are jealous? Do you get angry and your face turns beet red or do you freeze and withdraw into yourself?  Maybe you feel something completely different than this. Chances are, a physical reaction that may range from uncomfortable to completely unbearable comes with your jealousy. You probably want to say something […]

The Self Esteem Fix for Jealousy

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a fix for your jealousy? If you could do one thing that would free you from the worry, turmoil and torment that you go through because of your jealousy, would you do it? We’re not promising you a quick fix and we can’t guarantee that after you do […]

Jealousy Help When Your Partner Pulls Away

Have you ever been in the upsetting and jealousy-triggering place of feeling like your partner has pulled away from you? When your partner seems distant or distracted, it can seem like a huge rejection. Your jealous mind turns whatever your partner is (or isn’t) saying or doing into a sign that something is wrong. Trisha […]

A Way Out of Your Biggest Jealousy Argument

Jeremy doesn’t see why his girlfriend Karen still keeps in close contact with her ex. Karen and her ex don’t have kids together and there is no good reason that Jeremy can see for them to text and call one another on a regular basis. Karen disagrees. When she and her ex broke up, their […]

3 Ways to Respond to Your Partner’s Jealous Meltdown

Jenny can’t stand it when her boyfriend Chris gets jealous. He is a very intense guy which is great when he’s happy. He can be the life of the party and so much fun to be around. But, when he gets jealous, Chris explodes. She wants to literally run and hide even though Chris has […]

Send a CLEAR Message…When Your Partner Gets Sexy Texts from Another Person

Michelle has had enough! It was annoying when her boyfriend Jeff started getting daily texts from a woman he works with. The texts started out innocent– jokes about their boss or gripes about work projects. Then, the messages became more flirty and personal– questions about what Jeff was up to. Jeff always showed Michelle the […]

Help When You’re Jealous of Your Partner’s Ex

 Liz is outraged!   Her husband’s ex has been causing trouble– again– in her marriage.  Liz’s husband, Andy, tries to ignore the daily text messages, phone calls and emailed photos he gets from his ex-wife.   Andy’s strategy is to not stir up any trouble and only deal with his ex when there is an issue […]

6 Signs that Your Partner Could Be Having an Online Affair

Cybercheating IS real! In this digital age, it’s super fast and super easy to communicate and connect with people who live on the other side of the world. It’s also, unfortunately, super easy to have an online affair. Especially with the ever-growing use of social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter, socializing with others has […]

Is Infidelity Good for a Relationship?

“Is infidelity good for a relationship?” We were stopped in our tracks when we read this question on a website recently. If you interviewed people on the street and relationship experts in their offices, they’d probably say that, without a doubt, infidelity is NOT a good thing for a love relationship or marriage. If you’ve […]

Don’t Let Facebook Ruin Your Relationship

Social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter have revolutionized the way that we interact with one another. Physical distance means nothing if you have internet access and an account. You can learn about the birth of your cousin’s baby even if they live across the country. You can see pictures of your best friend from […]

What to Do When Your Jealousy is Justified!

There are many occasions when a person has developed a jealous habit and sees his or her current relationship through the lens of jealousy. It seems that no matter how “innocent” this person’s partner is, betrayal or threat is perceived by the jealous person at every turn. Both the person who is jealous and his […]

Remove the Landmines from Difficult Conversations with Your Spouse

Have you ever been all stirred up, anxious or irritated about something involving your partner and you could hardly contain yourself? As much as you want to hash this out with your spouse, this seems like it’s a disaster waiting to happen. In the past, it may have seemed like there were “landmines”– surprising explosions […]