Is Your Jealousy Driving Him Away? 5 Ways to Know…

There’s a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach and it’s not because of something you ate. You know that your questions, comments and voiced concerns to your guy often come from jealousy. An almost-constant stream of worries and fears run through your mind and you’re afraid that this is turning him off and pushing him […]

6 Signs that Love Will Thrive in Your Relationship

Are you a worrier? Do you look around at all of the love relationships and marriages that started out so wonderfully and then ended in pain and drama? It can feel like there’s an epidemic of relationships falling apart if you read magazines or surf the internet. It’s natural to want to know what chance […]

4 Surprising Ways to Stop Having the Same Argument with Your Spouse

What is that one argument you and your partner have again and again? Is it about money? The best way to parent? How often to have sex? Many couples have (at least) one sticky issue that causes tension and turmoil for them. As much as they try to avoid it or settle it, they can’t. […]

Break Free from Relationship Problems

Kim feels trapped. She and her long-time boyfriend Jared have been having the same miserable argument over and over again. They can’t seem to find a solution and things are only getting worse. He insists his friendship with his ex is only that– a friendship– but Kim believes that Jared’s ex is manipulating him and using […]

Go from Conflict to Cooperation in 5 Easy Steps

Julie is sick and tired of everything being a struggle in her marriage. She and her husband Chris are both opinionated. Julie appreciated this when they first got together; debating with him brought passion to their relationship. When they settled down and got married, what used to add spark turned into a big hassle. Everything […]

Is Jealousy Really SO Terrible?

What do you tell yourself when you feel jealous? “Everybody gets jealous.” “A ‘little’ jealousy is good for my relationship.” “I’ve got this jealousy thing under control.” “Jealousy only shows my partner how much I care.” “Jealousy really isn’t so terrible!”  You try to convince yourself that the worried, angry, insecure and upset way you […]

5 Phrases to Say When You Feel Jealous

What happens to you when you are jealous? Do you get angry and your face turns beet red or do you freeze and withdraw into yourself?  Maybe you feel something completely different than this. Chances are, a physical reaction that may range from uncomfortable to completely unbearable comes with your jealousy. You probably want to say something […]

How to Create a Million Dollar Marriage

Even though there are individuals who are billionaires today, a million dollars is still a LOT of money. If your income and assets are relatively modest, the idea of having a million dollars in your bank account may boggle your mind. Imagine what it would be like to have an amazing amount of money and, […]

The Self Esteem Fix for Jealousy

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a fix for your jealousy? If you could do one thing that would free you from the worry, turmoil and torment that you go through because of your jealousy, would you do it? We’re not promising you a quick fix and we can’t guarantee that after you do […]

You Did What?! How to Apologize and Repair Your Relationship After Lying

Jeanne told her husband Paul a huge, gigantic lie. She didn’t intend to, but she did. Things have been tense in their marriage since Paul was laid off from his job 6 months ago. Well, things were already tense between the two of them and this added stress didn’t help. While backing out of their […]

How NOT to Act if You Want Love That Lasts

If you’ve ever been through a breakup or even a really bad and tense time in your current relationship, you might be asking yourself this question… “What did I do wrong?!”   You may be wondering what you said or did that led you to this place of disappointment, conflict and maybe even heartbreak. What were […]

No Intimacy? Your Communication Style May Be to Blame

Are you a…  nag  complainer  criticizer  apologizer  hedger? Nobody likes to admit it, but every single one of us has a few habits that aren’t beneficial. These are the things we regularly say and do that prevent us from creating the kind of relationship and life we really want. Because communication is so central to […]

Jealousy Help When Your Partner Pulls Away

Have you ever been in the upsetting and jealousy-triggering place of feeling like your partner has pulled away from you? When your partner seems distant or distracted, it can seem like a huge rejection. Your jealous mind turns whatever your partner is (or isn’t) saying or doing into a sign that something is wrong. Trisha […]

Tame Relationship Tension by Doing THIS…

Gina and Scott have begun to avoid each other. This is pretty sad for a married couple who claim to love and care about one another, but it’s what has happened. The tension started a few months ago…  Gina is head of the human resources department for a thriving company. Scott has a good job, but […]

A Way Out of Your Biggest Jealousy Argument

Jeremy doesn’t see why his girlfriend Karen still keeps in close contact with her ex. Karen and her ex don’t have kids together and there is no good reason that Jeremy can see for them to text and call one another on a regular basis. Karen disagrees. When she and her ex broke up, their […]