Relationship Advice When Things Get Tense…
One of the biggest relationship questions is how to feel and express yourself when you get triggered–so that a partner can hear and not shut down to you or get into a big fight. When you and your partner are feeling resistant and “hard” toward each other, it doesn’t lead to more intimacy and the [...]
Build More Relationship Trust
If you’re like us, you’ve been amazed to watch how this US presidential election has unfolded over the past year.We’ve been especially interested in how much the idea of “trust” plays into who gets elected and what this has to teach us about our own relationships. Regardless of your politics, the person who wins any [...]
Can I Be Myself and Still Catch ‘Mr. Right’?
A great relationship question came to us last week and because it’s a question that many people have asked themselves about their relationship at one time or another…We thought you might benefit from our answer, so we’ve included it here…The question is… Can you “be yourself” and find your perfect partner, creating a relationship that [...]
Jealousy: Stop Nagging and the ‘Stupid’ Questions
How do you stop destructive behavior, nagging, and repetitive, “stupid” questions when you are jealous? This is such a great question and… If jealousy is keeping you, your partner or anyone you know stuck in behavior that you’re not proud of, or keeping you from the love and relationship you really want we suggest that [...]
Relationship Advice if You Think Romance Is Dead…
We’ve been seeing a lot in the media these days suggesting that when it comes to relationships… “Romance is dead…” While this isn’t true for everyone or for every couple… The truth is that for MANY women and couples, this is absolutely true. Women especially tell us that they want more love, more connection and [...]
More Relationship Advice
Find Love and Create the Relationship of Your Dreams
Have you had it with being single and alone? Are you tired of romantic encounters that either lead nowhere or lead you places you don’t want to go? Are you ready to share your life and love with the mate of your dreams? If you answered “yes,” to any of these questions then you are [...]
How Badly Do You Want Intimacy In Your Relationships?
Several years ago, Susie attended a meeting of all women and one of the participants wistfully told them about the elk. According to this woman, the female elks live and raise their young in the company of other female elks. The male elks come around once a year, the females pick out the best males, [...]
Relationship Advice for Making Changes in your Life and Relationships
How do you find the motivation to change? What is the secret for making changes in our relationships and lives? Why does is usually take something “big” to happen to us get us to shift from where we are to something much better? The answers to these questions may surprise you because… After learning to [...]
“Jealousy and Suspicion: Can you get over it?”
Here’s an interesting question about jealousy and suspicion that a woman asked us recently… “Hi, I have been receiving small daily hints on jealousy. My problem is not only with my partner but also with my dad too. He is 71. I am more suspicious than jealous. It is a feeling of wanting to know [...]
Affairs and Infidelity
After Cheating: He’s Still in Contact with His Ex
So you’re trying to rebuild trust in your marriage or relationship and it just makes you crazy when you think about the two of them– You wonder why does he (or she) keep in contact with the ex or person from the office who poses a danger (in your mind) to your relationship? He (or [...]
Cheating Spouse and How to Heal after Infidelity or an Extramarital Affair
According to marriage and family counsellor Dr. Frank Gunzburg, when you first learn that your spouse has had an affair, it’s not only devastating but it’s a crazy cocktail of anger, denial, grief and a complete loss of self-esteem. If you have been injured by a cheating husband or cheating wife, especially if the news [...]
Communication
2 Ways to Get Back on Course When Your Communication is Off
Have you ever wondered how a casual conversation with your mate can somehow end up an argument? Maybe you two started out talking about something as mild as the weather and in some way one or both of you were triggered and ended up shutting down.If you’re tuned in to yourself and your partner, it [...]
3 ‘Secret’ Ways to Deeper Connection and Intimacy
NOTE: Have you ever had the feeling that you wanted to get closer with your partner–especially when it comes to communication–and wanted to try some things without making a big deal about it? Then– you might want to go check this out: ***QUESTION FROM A READER: “I’m looking for ways to develop intimacy with my [...]
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