“Turn the Car Around!” 4 Things to Do if Your Marriage is Headed for Divorce

A relationship can be a lot like taking a road trip. You start out excited and eager. You and your partner are thrilled to be together. You hang on one another’s every word and you truly have fun and plenty of passion together. At some point, the trip becomes a little routine. You’ve passed about […]

“She won’t have sex anymore! Is this a good reason to breakup?”

John can hardly remember what it feels like to be sexually intimate with his wife Cindy. He has a vague recollection of how wonderful it is to kiss her passionately and have her kiss him eagerly in return. Unfortunately, it’s been far too long since even that has happened. Over the course of their marriage, […]

“HELP! I’m Tempted to Cheat!”

Christy has always considered herself to be a loyal and devoted wife to her husband Pete. Once they started dating, she hardly gave good looking guys a second glance– not interested. She’s always assumed that she and Pete would be together for the rest of their lives. Until last month. While Christy was at an […]

Ready for a Relationship Miracle?

Jackie is devastated. She knew that her marriage to Craig wasn’t in the best shape, but she had no idea how unhappy and emotionally separated they both felt. When Jackie opened an email from one of Craig’s co-workers, she thought it was about the company’s annual picnic…she was floored when she realized this was the […]

Rebuild Trust with Your Cheating Partner…When There’s a Child Involved

Cheating hurts. It hurts to feel betrayed and it damages relationship trust and connection. When your partner has an affair, it can leave you questioning everything you thought you knew about your partner, yourself and your relationship. When a child is involved, cheating becomes that much more difficult and destructive. Jason genuinely regrets that he […]

“Can I Ever Forgive Him for Cheating and Breaking My Heart?”

Yvette feels like her heart has been ripped out and stomped on. This is how raw and ragged she has felt since finding out that her husband, Bryan, has been having an affair with another woman. Now that she has confronted Bryan about his cheating and he has broken off the affair and renewed his […]

“Am I crazy with jealousy or is my partner really having an affair?”

It can be one of the most miserable feelings to not know what to believe. You might be caught wondering if you have finally lost all touch with reality because of your jealousy or if the suspicions you have that your partner is cheating are true. Nobody wants to be called (or feel) crazy and […]

“Am I Just Settling for Less Staying in This Lackluster Marriage?”

After the umpteenth time listening to her complaints about her marriage, Tina’s friends ask her– yet again– why she stays. Tina is beginning to wonder about that herself. To Tina, it seemed unavoidable that her once-spicy relationship with Larry would become dull. After all, they’ve been together for 14 years now. Isn’t this what happens […]

“Can My Relationship Be Saved? Advice to Help You Decide Whether to Stay or Go After an Affair

“My relationship is completely broken and shattered into millions of tiny pieces,” Ellen thinks to herself. She recently found out that her husband Gary has been having an affair. As betrayed as Ellen feels, at this moment she cannot contemplate what life would be like without Gary. It frightens and grieves her to even contemplate […]

“How Many Broken Promises Should I Put Up With?”

Another lie. Another disappointment. Another broken promise. If your relationship is struggling, you might be looking for some glimmer of hope that everything will be okay. You may be searching for some sign that you and your partner will work things out, despite your history of conflict, arguing, jealousy and maybe even cheating. Perhaps you […]

Marriage Advice About the #1 Question Most Married Couples Ask

So what do you think the #1 relationship question most married people ask themselves at some time during their marriage? Have you ever thought about it? Even in happy marriages (ours included), this question rolls through almost everyone’s mind at some point. If things aren’t going so well in your marriage, it comes up a […]

Marriage Advice When You Think Your Spouse is THE Problem

Who’s the “problem” in your marriage? Is it you? Your partner? Your in-laws? Something or someone else? If you’re like most people, your answer about who the problem is, is probably pretty quick and definite… Your answer about who the problem is, is probably the same as the people who buy our Should You Stay […]