6 Signs that Your Partner Could Be Having an Online Affair

Cybercheating IS real! In this digital age, it’s super fast and super easy to communicate and connect with people who live on the other side of the world. It’s also, unfortunately, super easy to have an online affair. Especially with the ever-growing use of social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter, socializing with others has […]

Is Infidelity Good for a Relationship?

“Is infidelity good for a relationship?” We were stopped in our tracks when we read this question on a website recently. If you interviewed people on the street and relationship experts in their offices, they’d probably say that, without a doubt, infidelity is NOT a good thing for a love relationship or marriage. If you’ve […]

Don’t Let Facebook Ruin Your Relationship

Social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter have revolutionized the way that we interact with one another. Physical distance means nothing if you have internet access and an account. You can learn about the birth of your cousin’s baby even if they live across the country. You can see pictures of your best friend from […]

How to Say “I’m Sorry” After Your Affair

Trying to pick up the pieces of your relationship after you’ve had an affair or betrayed your mate in another way can be difficult. You need to be patient and do whatever it takes to rebuild trust if you want to stay in this relationship. Many times the road to re-connection can start with an […]

Rebuild Trust (and Your Marriage) Even When Your Spouse Refuses to Talk About the Affair

“How will we ever put our marriage back together again if he won’t even talk about his affair?” Jenny poses this frustrated question to her good friend. Jenny’s husband, Todd, cheated 6 months ago and, while he has ended the affair and promised her that he’s now committed to their marriage, Todd refuses to talk […]

“Am I crazy with jealousy or is my partner really having an affair?”

It can be one of the most miserable feelings to not know what to believe. You might be caught wondering if you have finally lost all touch with reality because of your jealousy or if the suspicions you have that your partner is cheating are true. Nobody wants to be called (or feel) crazy and […]

Doesn’t Everybody Deserve a Second Chance? 2 Ways to Answer This Question for Yourself

We’ve all heard the sayings that “everyone deserves a second chance.” If your man has a history of lying to you and possibly of also cheating, you might be wondering if your partner deserves a second chance. Even if he deserves that second chance, are you wise to offer it? If you’re in a place […]

Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the 1. […]

Move Beyond Mistrust in Your Love Relationship

Yet again you dodged the uncomfortable silence, dismissed the gnawing fears in your gut, stifled the suspicions that rage in your mind.It seems to get harder and harder to pretend that the mistrust isn’t there in your relationship but there’s no denying that it is. No matter how much you may try to pretend that […]

My Husband ‘Needs Patience’ and Won’t Stop Seeing Her!

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach Here’s a great question that is very common when one person in a relationship has had an affair and just can’t seem to let go of the OP (other person). “My husband admitted to the affair, but yet he still continues to contact this person and has asked […]

Surviving Infidelity: Why Do People Cheat or Have Extramarital Affairs?

One of the questions you undoubtably have if you’ve been cheated on is why it happened. You’ve probably asked yourself this question dozens of times. And you may feel that you need to know why the affair happened in order to keep it from happening According to marriage and family counsellor Dr. Frank Gunzburg, the […]

Is This Internet Cheating?

by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach   Dear Dr. Bob, I recently found that my fiance has been writing to several other women over the internet and I found the e-mails. They are all very suggestive and sexual and he talks to them about things that he and I have shared. He cannot understand […]

46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair

By Dr. Bob Huizenga Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don’t change anything.Signs of a Cheating Spouse: […]

Online Affair: How to recover and move on after a relationship betrayal

Since the development and widespread use of the internet, amazing possibilities have become available to many people around the world. Geographical boundaries can easily be traversed with the click of a mouse and doors to new information, experiences and people are now wide open. This is all wonderful– except if your spouse or partner chooses […]

The Three Symptoms of Affair Withdrawal

by Dr. Frank Gunzburg Baltimore Maryland When you end the affair, you might get a feeling of “withdrawal.” As I stated above, being in an affair is a lot like being addicted to a drug. This means that when you end the affair you will have to go through the uncomfortable experience of “clean” again. […]