This relationship issue has been such a hot button topic lately and we’ve gotten hundreds of emails about it from both women AND men wanting to know more that we just had to say something and here’s why… Women are outraged and feel insulted when men do this and the worst part is…… in many [...]

Jealousy advice,especially on the internet is plentiful and it can be pretty confusing to figure out what advice to believe and what not to.If you are jealous or your partner is jealous–and you’ve talked about it with your friends–you might be getting their advice added to the mix.This is especially dangerous because, in almost every [...]

Here’s an interesting question that one of the subscribers to this newsletter asked us recently… This is one of the biggest challenges that many couples face and can the lines get fuzzy really quick on this one! Are friendships with people of the opposite sex appropriate if you are in a committed relationship? Here are [...]

One of the things that prevents couples from having a relationship that’s as close and connected as they’d like it to be–especially when there’s jealousy–is that one or both of them finds themselves NOT saying what’s on their mind on a regular basis–or saying it wrong!This is one of the reasons we created our Stop [...]

By Susie and Otto Collins  A common issue that gets in the way of having great relationships is jealousy. We put the issue of jealousy into two camps: 1) Where one or both partners have broken past commitments and there is jealousy between them. And 2) Where one partner is jealous of their partner and [...]

Here’s an interesting question about jealousy and suspicion that a woman asked us recently…  “Hi, I have been receiving small daily hints on jealousy. My problem is not only with my partner but also with my dad too. He is 71. I am more suspicious than jealous. It is a feeling of wanting to know [...]

Overcome Jealousy “Jealousy–How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others–And Always Coming Up Short” by Susie and Otto Collins Have you ever compared yourself to another person? If you’re human–and honest–you probably answered “yes.” The truth is that we all have compared ourselves to others–in lesser or greater degrees at sometime in our lives. Comparing ourselves [...]

“Been married for a year and a half now but my wife keeps spying on my Facebook page almost everyday. There is a pass code on my phone she does not know, but last time she was able to read my massages and came questioning me.”Even though I have got nothing to hide from her [...]

***QUESTION FROM A READER: “How can I NOT be suspicious and jealous of my new husband when I was cheated on by past relationships?” >>>Suggestion: If you’ve been cheated on before–either by your current partner or by someone in a past relationship and jealousy is an issue for you… Then we highly suggest that you [...]

Why do we sabotage what we really want in our relationships and lives? That’s a great question and one we’ve been living with for the past week in our own lives and we’re sure that you’ve run across it too in your own life. There are many possible reasons why people unconsciously sabotage something that’s [...]

Overcome Jealousy “Stopping Your ‘Silly’ Jealous Thoughts after Being Hurt in Past Relationships” by Susie and Otto Collins When you’re jealous, you’re usually in such an emotional tailspin that it’s sometimes difficult to know where the jealousy came from. But sometimes you KNOW it came from one or more past relationships where you were lied [...]

Can you stop jealousy without psychiatric intervention?And does it always destroy the relationships or marriages of people who find themselves mired in the muck of jealousy?These are good questions and … If you’ve experienced intense, out-of-control feelings that can come up because of jealousy, we’re guessing that at times, somewhere in the back of your [...]

When you’re in the middle of intense feelings of jealousy, it can seem like it will be that way forever. But it doesn’t have to be that way… You can do something to change your life and one of best ways to help yourself is to start learning new skills. If you’re ready, check out [...]

***QUESTION FROM A READER: “Is jealousy a phobia? I wonder if to get over it, I must treat it like a phobia? If I see a great looking woman or he is looking at her, I get the same symptoms that people with phobias get. I start breathing heavy, I shake and I feel all [...]

One of the biggest reasons that jealousy rears its ugly head is when a man or woman feels ignored by his or her partner.Whether the partner believes that he or she is guilty of ignoring the jealous person is irrelevant because in most instances, being ignored is all in the eye of the beholder. Here’s [...]